Having a strong and happy
relationship has a lot of benefits which is why everyone or partners should
strive to make relationships a happy and strong. In order to keep a
relationship strong and happy, one needs to make some little sacrifices as
these would make it possible to sort any differences that could to fights and
disagreements among the partners involved in the relationship. No one should
over expect from anyone in any relationship as too much expectations from
someone often leads to disappointment which is mostly painful at times.
One of the ways to keep a
relationship happy and strong is by making the relationship friendly. Before
becoming lovers, you must have been friends. No matter the level you are in a
relationship, you should always remember the foundation was deeply rooted in
friendships. Being friend with your partner and considering them as one will
allow avoid unnecessary arguments, share your thoughts and spend quality time
together. Always learn how to treat your partner with respect, kindness and
consideration the same way you will treat a trusted and good friend. The
treatment shouldn’t be one sided but done by both partners in order to keep the
friendship strong.
Always learn how to share your
thoughts and try not to focus on trifles. In a relationship, you should always
learn to share your thought with your partner. Be open minded about your likes
and dislikes in order to keep your relationship safe and happy. Communicate
your thoughts and avoid keep things to yourself. Remember a good relationship
is always built on trust therefore share your ideas and thought with each other
in order to keep the level of trust high. Often a seemingly little or minor
issue is most times a manifestation of a bigger problem therefore you should
always talk about what is bothering and iron out every little issues you might
have with each other to make the relationship strong and happy.
Be affectionate with your partner.
Learn how to show affection towards your partner daily as this will help create
more deep connection and trust between you and your partners. The show of
affection might not be sexually related most time but might come in form of
gifts, dates and other lovely ways of showing love and affection towards one
another. You can surprise your partner in a relationship on his or her special
days and outside the non-special days as well. The show of love and affection
should also not be one sided to keep the relationship happy and strong. You
should share your thought whenever you are not receiving the attention you
desire.
It is very important to recognize
and understand that all relationships have ups and downs in its lifetime.
Always think of your relationship as an investment which is often long term.
Learn how to ride during the ups and downtime of the relationship. One of the
rules to master and apply during the time is never to give up. Most of the
happy and strong relationship you see today has suffered some challenges in the
past but the resolve to keep working on it made a happy ending for it. There
are times when the pressures to opt out will be high so you have to try and
never give in until you have exhausted all avenues of making it great again
which is not common as there will always be a way to make your relationship
great, strong and happy.
Lastly, always set up
relationship goals. Look and forecast your relationship in the next two, five
or ten years. This will give more clarify and provide some meaning to your
relationship even during the trying moments which we can’t escape.
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4 Comments
It certainly helps that the person you're in a relationship with is also a friend, genuinely someone you want to be around and walk through life with. Lovely post!
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DeleteThis post was honestly the perfect reminder for me to get my head on straight. Due to the lack of good relationships I have had in the past, I realised over time I have become less communicative, more reactive, and just expect things to just fall into place for me with little effort. Now, that I have been in an amazing relationship for the past 3 years, I have been getting a lot better but at times I still fall off and need a little reminder. I hate when I start to see old bad habits come up in my new relationship because he does not deserve it. This post helped a lot, thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the comment. I am glad it really helped you.
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